Snapshot Report Self-report Component
Subscale IQ score = 93
Subscale percentile = 34
According to your self-report answers, your emotional intelligence is slightly below average. People who score like you do feel that their ability to understand and deal with their own emotions and those of others is just barely acceptable. Emotionally intelligent people have an easy time overcoming difficulties in their lives and they are generally able to control their moods. It’s easy for them to motivate themselves to overcome obstacles and reach their goals. In addition, they find social interactions to be quite easy and fulfilling, for several reasons. They are comfortable allowing themselves to get close with others, and feel comfortable being vulnerable enough to establish intimacy. They also report having an easy time offering support to others; likely due to an empathetic nature and a solid ability to offer advice. Perhaps by working on your problem areas, you can become more confident in dealing with your own emotions and those of others.
Haha, I read a post from Mai, utter rubbish from mindless dude(she's a dudette by the way), and yeah, I must admit that I was curious to see how well I would score due to the fact that I never took these sort of questions and some way, somehow, deep inside me, I was starting to get all confused with what kind of character I would be in House Land due to some complications happening for the past couple of months. I thought and hoped that I would be a House but damn it, I turned out to be a pretty decent human being after all, emotionally at least...LOL.
"People who score like you do feel that their ability to understand and deal with their own emotions and those of others is just barely acceptable. "
SPOT ON!!! Yeah, I was screwed up pretty badly a few years back...so I guess I'm on the right track then huh...
"Emotionally intelligent people have an easy time overcoming difficulties in their lives and they are generally able to control their moods. "
Yeah, this sounds pretty much like me...if not consistently being in this sort of state due to the fact that sometimes, when I'm angry, BOOM!!! Just like that everything went off. When I'm disappointed and sad, instead of crying, I watch comedy..that's just comical... When I'm stressed out and can't always get what I want, I would be in that silent, lifeless, emotionless mood...responding with sort responses like yeah, don't know, oh, hmmm, haha, stuffs like that. Oh, and yeah, I would curse and curse and curse and be angry at everything behind the backs of them people that are frustrating me...but thankfully, it will last for like a few minutes....haha.
"It’s easy for them to motivate themselves to overcome obstacles and reach their goals. "
Haha....out of 10 times trying, I would be successful for like only 2 or 3 times....haha, so yeah, I'm a work in progress.
"In addition, they find social interactions to be quite easy and fulfilling, for several reasons. "
Hahaha...for several reasons...yeah, it's true alright. I will communicate with acquaintances just like saying hi and other shitty stuffs, usually for a few minutes...nothing deep and long. If they do intend to stay, I would probably just listen and let them do all the talking. But if communicating with people that are friends and beneficial beneficial, in terms of giving me a good time, laugh, flirt, gossip, listening to their problems and offer solutions thus making me feel all good about myself and other stuffs like that, yeah, I'm pretty good at that.
"They are comfortable allowing themselves to get close with others, and feel comfortable being vulnerable enough to establish intimacy. "
This is true when it involves people that are of the same gender. Notice why all of my top friends in myspace are boys? LOL. Hmmm, girls, on the other hand, I don't know la... I tried to pick up their signals, interpret their signs, but seriously, for those that I meet for like the very first time, they couldn't see past my physical being. Other than those who have decent sense of humour, I couldn't see other ways on how to communicate with them. So, to them girls that know who they are, yeah, COUNT YOURSELVES PRETTY LUCKY...or is it that's lucky...haha
"They also report having an easy time offering support to others; likely due to an empathetic nature and a solid ability to offer advice. "
Haha, true indeed. All thanks to House. Seriously, I don't know where I would be without that bloody TV show. But I'm not sure about the whole empathetic nature thing though. I give out advice based on logic, not random feelings.
"Perhaps by working on your problem areas, you can become more confident in dealing with your own emotions and those of others."
Haha, couldn't agree more. I kinda know where my weakness is, like being all lazy and will easily give up on matters if the fire isn't there anymore, but strangely, instead of dealing with that, due to my laziness, I am just way too lazy to deal with that...probably due to lack of motivation...see? Told you right? My other problem is lack of motivation but because I'm too lazy to find motivation....I'm kinda like stuck in this bloody vortex where I'm spinning round and round and round furiously, but ends up getting nowhere...lol.
Oh, and only now I realised that I'm a Wilson....stuffs inside my head are only theoretical...only when the moments come, under severe pressure and being all desperate will I do all them bad and gutsy stuffs. And what character in House do you think you are?
So, ladies and gentlemen, there you have it. With that, I'd finished my first ever 27th blog entry in my entire life. Hope you guys enjoy it....cheers.